So, you need a look that isn't too bold, but isn't shy either? Investing in a few statement pattern pieces to be worn on separate occasions will let you get away with a few less stares but will maintain all of the confidence. Win-win, right?
A proper unassuming hat will also add to the confidence of your outfit. Assuming it's unassuming, your divine presence shouldn't be too overwhelming.
Adding small accessories and keeping the rest of your outfit simple, will allow your statement piece to make the statement. It will love you more for that.
Shh. Wait. Listen.
We hope you enjoyed that monologue just now, so in closing, we'd like to keep it simple... again.